Mmmm. I can see the appeal. if he came up to me and tole to get my coat, I'd go with him. But I wonder, if I was in the same pub as you, would we be chasing the same man? I realise you probably won't be looking for a man, but I'd dump Nick in a heartbeat if Trey came over and put his hand on my thigh. Maybe I'd dump both Nick and Trey if YOU came over and put your hand on my thigh?